North side of the Golden Gate Bridge
The Pickle-less Mr. Pickles Sandwich Shop
"The Rock" - Alcatraz
In the foothills, north of SF
Golden Gate
The Scoot and the Golden Gate
A view of the Pacific
Making it official
The cliche shoes by the ocean shot
I just want to be BIG....your wish has been granted
Being a guy, my eyes unconsciously gravitated to this 1930's 25 cent peep show...
unfortunately what they called XXX back then we call MTV today.
I just had to do the tourist thing
Sea Lions at Fisherman's Wharf
Saint Francisco of Assisi
Scary, I almost do this sea lion thing too well....
Cousins Earl and Laurie - great tour guides
Touring the many Spanish influenced churches
Delores Mission graveyard
The ultimate missionary: Juinpero Serra
with the bald head, I kind of resemble a monk
Delores Mission Church
San Fran Morning
My new favorite town in the US, Sausalito
Sausalito
Into wine country
Wine taste testing at the Sebastiani Winery, Sonoma
When your by yourself and tipsy, you'll meet friends...guaranteed
Finishing off the last three glasses
Translated, "When a glass of wine invites a second, the wine is good."
Northern most Mission located in Sonoma
Tightly grown rows of grapes
A warm silhouette of history's greatest hero
View from Lombard St., SF
Why can't philly have more trollies?
The First and Last Chance Bar - Oakland, CA - Jack London's pub & stomping ground
(notice that the bar is completely slanted down from the 1906 earthquake)
Jack's hang out
Jack London: A wild man and pure American adventurist (and drunkard)
The highlight of my trip, the family: left to right
Me, Memom (Aunt Diana), Dante, Adam, Pepop (Uncle Earl), Olivia, Earl Jr.
...and so many many more of them not pictured....
Cousin Tommy and his lover
Me, Earl, and some dude that had a really rough night
Out eating Korean BBQ with the family
The day I arrived, Aunt D. and Uncle E. wanted to take the scooter out for a spin
Pepop (Uncle Earl) and I
After I filled up on gas in Oakdale, I pulled over at Mr. Pickle's Sandwich Shop....I haven't had a pickle in a long time, and there was pickle-man waving me over to taste his delicious pickles...to me, a turkey sandwich and a top-of-the-line pickle sounded like a great dinner, so I pulled over and walked inside this world-renowned famous pickle and sandwich shop. I said, "Hello, I'd like to have a turkey sandwich, with swiss cheese on rye bread and...hmmmm....there are so many choices of pickles on your menu....so many different flavors....I'll take the garlic pickle please..." This 15 year old girl interjects, " Sorry, we are out of garlic pickles..." I said, "In that case, I'll take the jewish pickle or polish pickle...either one is fine. She said, " Uhhhhhh...see the thing is that we are out of pickles...all the pickles, well, they're gone." I began to laugh out loud, " You mean, you have a poor man dressed up in an embarrassing life sized pickle costume, waving in cars to eat at Mr. Pickles, and you don't even have any pickles!?" "That's correct, " she said in a serious tone. "Pigs may fly, hell might freeze over, but I thought Mr. Pickle would surely have some pickles!" I jokingly exclaimed. The owner then came out from the back of the kitchen and took over for the girl...I guess I was too much for her. So I ordered my turkey sandwich without pickles and walked over to the Starbucks next door to eat it and figure out where I was going to stay that night.
As soon as I sat down, a man sitting next to me starting asking me questions about my scooter. He was obviously a Harley-Davidson rider...he had the Harley logo shirt, wore aviator sun glasses, black leather boots, tight jeans, and sported a sweet duster, wyatt earp-style mustachio. I thought to myself, "Uh no, not another Harley-Davidson guy who thinks he's the cat's meow when it comes to all things two wheeled and motorized" From the things he was saying, I could just feel his sense of arrogance...I rode a wimpy 150 cc scooter and he rode a 1200 cc Fat Boy....therefore, not only was he a lot better than me, but he also had the bike to back up everything he believed....by they way, I met a lot of kind hearted and hip motorcyclist along the way...but because the few schlep-rocks I met happened to be Harley riders, I'm forever turned off to buying a Harley...it seems to me that some riders buy Harley-Davidsons to boost their low self-esteem...that's my theory and I'm sticking too it. Anyway, I told him that I was planning on finding a campsite near Oakdale and riding into San Francisco in the morning...he began to tell me that getting to San Fran was really easy and (if I was a real motorcyclist) I could get there that night. He began to convince me that I could make the 120 mile ride in the dark and arrive in San Francisco by 10 at night. Let me just tell you I didn't have a smart phone (it was destroyed in the rain/hail storm) or a detailed map of California...just US state maps showing major primary roads and a few secondary roads. Why I decided to ride att night without a good map or clear directions, I don't know, but it was a dumb decision. Going off a chicken scratched list of directions on a starbuck's napkin, I decided to begin the trek to San Francisco at 7:30 at night.
I drove west through mid-sized towns for 25 or so miles until I came to a stretch of farmland without any clear signs or street lights. My compass was showing that I've been heading west in the right direction the entire time, however, I didn't recognize any of the road names I listed on my chicken scratched napkin, so I turned around and started riding back....from there, I'm not really sure what happened but I was lost. It was dark, there were a ton of dead ends and roads that would go west for a while then turn south or north putting me of course. I rode on a dead end country road that intersected with I-5, which eventually will lead into SF. I decided to hop on the highway even though I knew it wouldn't be the safest thing to do....I was tired and frustrated and just wanted to get there. I previously rode on interstate highways a few times on my trip, however, it was always during the day when I was clearly visible to traffic. I was a bit more fearful to ride at night...my right turning signal light was broken, my gear covered much of back break light, and the speed limit was 75 mph....I could only reach 55-60 mph on a flat surface. If there were any climbs or hills, I could drop to speeds as low as 45 mph. I dueled the decision out in my mind and decided to take a chance. I got on the highway and just as I predicted, traffic that should have been going at 75 mph was at 85 mph. I was really nervous...I could feel my temple's pulse throbbing against inside of my helmet, my palms were sweating heavily inside my gloves and my heart could have bursted through the kevlar jacket if I hadn't started to take deep breaths to calm myself down. There was a semi that drove right up to me...he was so close, I could feel the mac-truck dog emblem chomping at the back of my neck. He then proceeded to high beam me and honk his horn. I thought, "this dude is going to kill me in 3, 2, 1......" He then suddenly swerved out of the my lane and went around me, probably cursing obscenities and raising hell, but my eyes stayed straight on the road ahead of me. I drove around 15 miles on I-5 and decided that I had too much torture for one night. I got off a random exit and decided to ditch plan B to arrive in SF that night and go back to plan A - get a place to sleep and ride there in the morning.
I ended up driving another 30 miles in circles until I reached the town of Stockton, CA - a grimy city dotted with old factory buildings and sketchy neighborhoods. Because it was so late at night, I decided to forgo getting a campsite and just get a motel for the night. The next morning I carefully mapped out my route to San Francisco and arrived at my Aunt Diana's and Uncle Earl's house in Alameda (an cozy island directly east of SF across the bay) about mid-day.
I couldn't have received a better welcoming...As soon as I pulled up to their house, Aunt Diana opened the front door of their late 19th century victorian house and immediately embraced me with a deep hug...she looked me directly in the eyes and said "We're so proud of you!" I then began to walk towards Uncle Earl who stood back in the front door entranceway...I stretched out my hand for the customary man-to-man handshake, but he ignored my glib gesture, pulled me close, then embraced me with sincere affection and said, "We love you." I've only met Aunt Diana a few times before as I child and I never met Uncle Earl before, but their love for me was real and genuine. I would get many more hugs and "I love you's " throughout the week...they truly made me feel at home and loved.
For the next week, I stayed with Aunt Diana and Uncle Earl in Alameda. I met most of their children and grandchildren (my cousins)....we shared big dinners, interesting conversations and many laughs. I have to say to re-uniting with my west coast family became the highlight of my trip...the continent was beautiful, the mountains amazed me, the desert stirred my imagination, and endless roads allowed me move into the center of my being....however, being loved by your own tops it all. They are truly one of the most interesting, amazing, and loving people I have ever met....it doesn't surprise me at all that we are related! :)
The next few days, I made trips to the north side of the Golden Gate bridge and down to the Pacific Ocean to take my final I-made-it pictures ( I can't believe I actually made it!) Through out the week, my cousin's Earl and Laurie drove me around San Fran and Oakland so show me the sounds, smells, and sights. San Francisco is a beautiful city and culturally diverse...the bay area is definitely a place I could hang my hat for a while and call home. I made several day trips to surrounding areas including Sonoma/Napa Valley, San Rafael, Sausalito, and the University of Cal at Berkley. All were charming and interesting in their own, unique way.
I wrapped up the week by crating and shipping back the scooter with the help of the San Francisco Scooter Shop. After 29 days of hard riding and 7 days of sight seeing and reuniting with my family, it was becoming time to fly back home to Philly. I had mixed feelings about returning home...in one sense I was exhausted and ready to get back to my girlfriend, work and reality but on the other hand, I had say goodbye to adventure, freedom, and the daily thrill of stepping out into the unknown.
Coming home was bitter-sweet...the trip has forever changed me. ....
My finals thoughts and feelings about the trip will be on the next, final blog.
PS To all the Rivard's....Thank you for making my stay in San Fran so special. I love you all and hope to be with you again soon.